A Few Things I noticed at Lobby Day.

Dear Readers,
I deeply apologize to you all for not writing for such a long time. Inspiration avoided me until today when I finally found the words I needed to write a post that would be worth reading.

This post is about my trip down to Lobby Day at my states capital building, but more specifically, about the night before the big day. The group I was with included myself, one straight girl, one gay male, and two homosexual couples, one couple being female and the other male. We all went out to dinner the night before and I noticed something on that walk to the nice place to eat that we went to.

The couples were holding hands as they walked through the streets. I was walking behind them, due to the fact that I walk rather slowly, and I watched how they interacted with each other, and others around them. It occurred to me that before this trip I felt a little uncertain about being around a homosexual couple, but after I saw them walking and laughing together, I concluded that this uncertainty was unfounded.

I watched them walk through the street and I began to think more about the discrimination that the LGBTQAAETC community faces and more about people who are treated badly just because of their orientation. I watched them walk and I couldn't help but be confused. Why do people hate and are disgusted by people who deserve just as much happiness as the rest of the world? Seeing those guys and girls hold hands seemed so... natural. It now seems... stupid... that people would make such a big deal out of another person's sexual orientation.

I wonder now how it is that people seem to reject and go out of their way to oppress others because of a difference that shouldn't be much. Who people like, and why they like them, and what makes people happy should be what it is and it should be left alone by other people. If they do not have anything nice to say or do to another person then they should keep their mouth shut and accept people, or if they refuse to accept it then they should keep it to themselves and think whatever they want to think but keep it in their heads.

Now this post seems to have almost no end, so I should cut it here by saying that, watching those couples walk together, did not seem like there was anything wrong and I got confused as to the reason why people have so much trouble with it. It just seemed natural to me.

Sincerly,
Sarah

Some Generalizations That I Find Assuming and Offensive.

Dear Readers,
Today as I was surfing the vast sea of the internet I came across a rather, laughable topic about asexuality that I decided needed to be blogged about. A group of people were trying to figure out what made a person become asexual. Also they tried coming up with a stereotype for asexual.
For one thing, I didn't realize that there was enough asexual people to even have a stereotype. Nor that there was a definite cause of asexuality.
Saying that there is any one cause of being asexual is like saying that there is a one cause of being straight or homosexual or bi-sexual or any other orientation that I have neglected to mention. There has been no proven one cause of anything really. Even if we gathered all of the brightest people in the world into one room I dont think we could come up with one true cause. I'm just sayin.
Now as for stereotypes. All of them BLOW! Society just wants us to put people into boxes and try to categorize everything and everyone. In my humble opinion stereotypes need to be destroyed. Everyone has within them their own unique personality and traits. Something that is good for one is not good for others. I say that people who put others into boxes, should be left to their own devices, because they are obviously to naive or ignorant to be taken seriously.
To conclude, people can be really stupid when they try to put things into categories when things are better left unsaid or things better left undone. But then again, just sayin.
Sincerly,
Sarah

How I Managed to Avoid Sex All These Years

Dear Readers,
I'm sorry that I have neglected you all this last week. Life as it stood got rather busy. To make up for the lack of attention, I plan to post quite a bit this week!
Now to the main point of this post: How I avoided Sex in this society.
As I have stated in one of the past posts, this world is full of sex and sexual innuendos. There is a serious amount of pressure for people to be sexually active. Due to this, not having sex is something that is hard to do. Saying a big NO to sex gets harder the more society makes sex acceptable. Those who say no to sex are insulted and made fun of or told that they are strange because they are not whores, or even active in populating this planet.

I have decided that in this post I am going to give you  loyal readers some tips on how to avoid sex. Though you may never use these tips, you can at least use them as a way to help children by giving them some nice advice on how to say NO!

Tip 1: Know the pick up lines, and how to respond to them.
Men and women have spent many a night gossiping over the cute members of society that they wish to get with. They devise unique and maybe silly lines to try and attract those members to their side so that they can be with them for a night, or forever. One way to not fall to these charms is to spend a night thinking of many a way to counter their pick ups. Such as:
Charmer: Wanna come home with me?
You: I have aids.
See? That seems effective. Or maybe not. Your choice.

Tip 2: Avoid dressing like a Slut.
There are a lot of clothing company's that try to sell you cloths that make you look like a cheap, or even expensive, hooker. Wearing these clothes draws the eyes of members of the opposite gender, or even same gender, and makes them either drool, or start talking about you. If you wear more conservative clothes, like perhaps a parka, then you should be safe. Unless they are into that kinda thing, then your pretty much screwed.

Tip 3: Have a fake phone number at the ready.
By having a fake phone number available to you, it will allow those pesky persistent people to back off once they think that they have claimed the number of a possible sexual partner. This gets their hopes up, and they go and gloat to the people that they hang around. This makes them happy, and allows you time to make a quick exit, or at least get far enough away so that you need not worry about him or her anymore, or at least for the time being.

Tip 4:Just say that you are already in a committed relationship/ or say that you are waiting for marriage.
Though this part takes a little dedication, if you pull off a good poker face then you shall succeed in either getting rid of them, or getting the attention of someone who is actually worth your time.

Tip 5: Claim that you have a bad case of diarrhea.
No explanation needed.

To conclude this topic, I do think that avoiding sex in today's society, though it is hard, it IS doable. Sex is not needed to survive. Though some like sex, some don't. If you come up with any other ways feel free to share. Otherwise if you follow these tips, you are sure to do well. Think on it.

Sincerly,
Sarah.

Asexual Porn

Dear Readers,
Tonight I thought that I should talk a little bit about quit a few peoples favorite thing.

Porn.

Know I can understand how people could get off on pictures that are based on two people vying for sexual dominance on camera, or on the pages of a comic book. Though personally, I do not enjoy it.

Sex when done, I at least think, should be a private, sacred, and beautiful thing, between two people. It does not matter weather the two are male and female, or male and male, or even female and female. It should simply be an act of love. Fucking for the sake of Fucking is something that I believe is dirty. Now I know that I have not have the full sexual experience, and thus have limited room to talk, but lets be honest.

Fucking for the sake of Fucking is like prostitution. There may not be a monetary exchange, but its goal orientated and not very healthy.

But even the thought of watching two people partake in such a thing just seems to violate the privacy and rights of the people who are on camera. And having pictures taken of it doesnt make much sense since there is no physical pleasure to be had. Unless its those models in those cosmo mags. or something, than those girls are probably just desprite and horny and make enough money to buy hookers.

-Sarah